Good things come to those who wait

This phrase seems to be a whole bunch of bullshit. Good things come to those who take risks and seize their lives. They come to those who actually try to make something of themselves and have goals that they are working towards. Although the phrase nice guys finish last is not entirely true either. Yes in order to get what you want in life you have to be somewhat of a dick, however you need to learn when to be a dick. I do not believe that phrase should be nice guys finish last, it should be timid guys finish last. There is no reason you can't be nice and be successful, it happens a lot, you just need to realize when a change needs to be made. That being said every one does change, regardless if you realized it yourself or not, there is always a change, may it be for the better or for the worse. I hate judging people for what they do unless it's something serious in my eyes; i.e. serious drug addiction/problem, betrayal or crimes. This summer I'm about to make myself take risks I wouldn't normally take.